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OBEY YOUR ELDERS...

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In our childhood days, we all were very energetic and it could be seen in our actions. Whenever I had any event or ceremony in my home, my elder brother always advised me to sit quiet in a place, but I did not obey him and the consequences of it made me indulge in so much work that was assigned by my parents. I did not sit quietly but keep on dealing with the interior and the exterior of the home. When moving inside home my mother assigned me some work like going to market for bringing something, calling by neighbour’s aunt, picking up some relatives from bus stop etc. while moving outside home my father assigned me some work like bringing sweets, tea, snacks and drinking water for the guests etc. at the same time if I  completed the task late or did some irregularity my work then I  had to get scolding from both mother and father. No one can deny with the fact, the more work you do the more mistakes you will attempt. Working so much for both mother and father I was not ...

HOW TO DEVELOPE A HOBBY

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During my school days, I knew the only meaning of hobby not more than that, as I grown up I saw and met so many people who were good at doing something, it can be football, computer related activities, gardening, painting, stamp collecting, electronics activities etc. They were the persons of unique personality, I thought they had inborn hobbies though I did not have one or not able to find one. I was busy with my study, more serious about shaping my career through ecademics. And there were so many my classmates were similar to me, they were very conscious for study than thinking about hobby or devoting time to it. The students, who were good at sports or have any other hobby, get more attention and recognition from the teachers.  I realised the importance of a hobby and started developing it. I went through internet and found a list of hobbies and selected some hobby ideas in which i wanted to relish. I need all round development of my personality, and i made it happen by develop...

MODERN METRO CITY GIRL

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Someone switched on the lights; I woke up and asked, “Who is it?”  In a very fast wise he spoke. “It is Sambhu, warden of paying guest.”  I said, “Are you mad Sambhu. Yesterday I did night duty in the hospital and now I need to sleep. Did you know that?”  Sambhu replied, “I know Sir but you don’t know something for which I came here. I have seen a very beautiful girl under our paying guest.”  “What are you talking about nonsense?” I said.  Sambhu said, “Sir, there is a girl standing beside our paying guest and she is searching for someone.”  I said, “Why are you telling me? what I have to do with the girl?” Sambhu said, “She is a prostitute and searching for someone as her customer.”  I said, “Don’t say prostitute and customer like words. How did you know about the girl? Anyway I have to sleep. I’m not going to do any think.”  I said, “Sambhu Why don't you go with her?”  Sambhu said, “Sir I’m ready to be her customer but she denied, and as...

HAPPY DIWALI...

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  Wishing You & Your Family Very Very Happy Deepawali. ॐ सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः।  सर्वे सन्तु निरामयाः। सर्वे भद्राणि पश्यन्तु। मा कश्चित् दुःख भाग्भवेत्॥ *॥शुभम करोति कल्याणम,*  *आरोग्यम धन संपदा,* *शत्रु-बुद्धि विनाशायः,*  *दीपःज्योति नमोस्तुते॥* Let's celebrate the festival of lights together and spread happiness in the world! May the beauty of the festival of lights fill your home with happiness and this auspicious day brings joy, peace, and prosperity in your life. May your life shine aigh with the divine light of diyas and you all achieve your dreams and desires. Stay dedicated and keep working towards a better ahead of you! This Diwali is different.... This Diwali is not about whether my house is sparkling clean. It is not about whether I have prepared a variety of mithais and namkeens. It is not about whether I have that perfect ethnic attire and jewellery for the occasion. It is not about a bucketful of bucks I would be spending on shopping and firecrackers...

THE GREAT INDIAN #5

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  In childhood nobody thinks of going to a foreign country. It’s the process or I would say as the life progress and situation changes things automatically falls in your ground. Being from a background where most of my relatives work in a gulf country doing some odd jobs, I would say in that situation I am grateful to my father who was always standing as pillar to support me. His way of working and his struggle always boosted my confidence. On other hand though my father was the only earning person, my mother played an important role in well being of myself and my whole family. Though she lacks basic education but she never compromised with studies of any of her children. My father gave me the best education I could get. I did my schooling from one of the reputed school in India (Delhi Public School). After that I had plans for engineering and did again from a reputed institute (Delhi College of engineering).  After that I was working with Accenture almost for two years in IT ...

KINDRED SOUL THROUGH WINDOW

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While watching wedding websites Sumit insisted me to attend his marriage which was going to be held after six days, 28th February. I did not want to deny him but moreover I was eager to go to his village and feel how the village’s marriages happen. I heard more about the village life, village food, and the village’s people and their unity, about their kindness, respect towards guest and the natural beauty of ponds, sugarcane field and many more things. So I personally want to explore those things and know village quotes. I was excited to go to the village Shivpuri, a village in Raebareli district. Our semester exam was about to end. I started dreaming some days ago. Sumit left me for his home after ending of semester exam. But before leaving he directed me the way and train etc. to his village. I was going alone and two days before his marriage. I was travelling in a train, and was thinking about how I would be welcomed in his village and how should I have to behave with the people. I...

SOLUTION TO ADDICTION FROM SELF...

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I was addicted to watching videos from so many months, though it gave me so much information but at the same time it diverted me from my work, my study and the actual things that I want to do, in which I am interested in. In my case I like to travel and to know about history. I watched so many videos related to travelling for native places and for the places over the world. I like travelling but watching video in very high numbers is not appropriate that I know. For exploring new places, I have to go out to travel irrespective of distance and time that thing I also knew.  I like history subject consequently I started watching videos on internet that was also a reason of my addiction. Watching videos will not be appropriate for me but for getting information, I have to read books which allow me to get even small information. Books have publishing standards; videos of that standard may not be available. And moreover, reading books or travelling one can do for so many hours compared t...

ONLINE GIRL...MY JOURNEY TO DELHI

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With so much emotions, memories and sadness I left my home. Before reaching to my destination I had to stay at Lucknow to meet my sister. I was excited to meet her. My journey to Lucknow passed within two hours, memorising my and my sister’s childhood.  I was touched by the way they (sister's family members) welcomed me with such love and grace in my sister’s home. I told her that I had my bus which will depart at 9:00PM. I smiled and said to her in a funny way to save her hospitality for the end when i will leave. I also said to her to show all the hospitality and love before that time. Besides saying ok, she first asked, “Is your ticket cancellable? Are the cancellation charges applicable for this booking?” I said, “Not at all.” listening this she left me for the kitchen. While serving tea and snacks to me all the family members insisted me to please cancel ticket, and advised me to leave my destination tomorrow morning. My sister also insisted her mother-in-law to ask me to stay...