SELF RELIANT (ATMA NIRBHAR)

Being self reliant for me is to have reliance on my own powers and recourses rather than those of others. It is also that makes you cognizant and conscious, freely think and act on your own life. There are so many personalities that follow strict discipline in lifestyle to get bigger goals and try not to depend on others. If you want to walk on the path of success alone and work freely then you must have to be self reliant. Self reliant people are not only happy but also feel content in their life. 

If you want to be self reliant; you have to accept yourself as you are, the problems you are facing, with introspection. It will help you in developing powers within and make you stronger enough to fight challenges, it also makes you suitable to follow a unique path compatible for you, with making improvements. Self reliance does not allow you to be emotional with the people you are connected. People may change in your life. But if you make changes in yourself or in your attitude for their happiness in that case it will be the biggest disaster for your life. You should make a habit to follow self reliance, it will take you to a better place; also it will not hurt your sentiments. 

Some people will love you, some people will hate you, but you are not supposed to be hated until you give a chance to others to judge and offer opinion about you. Don’t listen to them just focus on loving yourself and making yourself charming and inspiring. Try not to avoid things necessary to do neither postpone them. 

Financially independent makes you self reliant. It is the biggest object that influences your life. Develop the ways with your own, how can you become financially independent; and start to save some amount. (About financially independent I will write in my later blogs)

Acceptance- you have to accept yourself irrespective of your personality, your interest in life, accept the ways you lived and want to live in future.  Conditions of life will not always be according to your plan. So you have to be strong to prove yourself even in odd days. Try to forget about the past mistake and proceed positively with having some ambitions plans for life to walk on. 

Trust- you should not expect from other people to trust you until you trust yourself; it will not only ease your life but also help you to make bigger decisions. 

Self motivated- self motivated people always find the reason and strength to complete a task in stipulated time even when challenging, without giving up or needing another to encourage them, without influence from other people or situations. Do not work to influence others, to show off or for others happiness, do not do the things expected by other peoples, like some people expect you to follow particular career some people; some people expect you to lose weight; some people expect you to earn more money, don’t listen to them but follow yourself and do the things that make you happy. Find the ways that makes you happy, find the ways that makes you healthy, and find the ways that makes you wealthy with your own. If you want to be a teacher, be it, if you are a female and want to join defence then go for it, make your own decision while choosing a tourist place, while going for shopping. Try to lessen asking for an opinion from others

Self integrity- To follow others is good, to live with your integrity is the best. So induce good principles and thoughts in your life without impacting your interest. It is also contradictory to follow a particular principle in real life which may or may not work.

Biased world- you will not always be loved or you will not always be hated. From your childhood you grow in an environment where you feel Biased, you have to keep yourself happy in each and every moment. You will be annoyed and feel prejudice, for colour of your skin, for your intelligence, for your religion, for your gender, for your financial status, for your thoughts or anything that defines you that defines your personality. You have to be happy. You cannot deny all this but you have to live with this.

Be the best - Life is full of critic, so try to ignore them, you are the best not only trust on it but also prove it, Take responsibility and lead a true life to achieve your goals, to make yourself the best you have to develop habits of collecting knowledge through reading and learning, develop your own opinion whether it is agreed or not agreed by a group of people. Self-reliance encourages you to live a life true to yourself not the life others expected of you.